"Selfishness, self-centeredness; that, we think, is the root of our troubles," wrote AA co-founder Bill Wilson in the book "Alcoholics Anonymous," otherwise known as the "Big Book." There are many factors in addiction, but at the core of this disease of unhealthy dependence is the self-centeredness described by Wilson. This self-centeredness can be found in the words "unhealthy dependence" in the following definition: "Addiction is unhealthy dependence on behaviors that impair our ability to function to full potential."  In the next definition the self-centeredness lies in our way of "adapting." Here's the definition: "Addiction is a disease in which any technique for adapting to life is used other than healthy interpersonal relating." Other self-centered factors at the heart of addiction are very relevant too, especially the Five Cs:  Craving Compulsion loss of Control despite efforts to control and  Continuing the behavior despite life-damaging Consequences. In the society we live in, this addictive self-centeredness is pervasive. You see it everyday.  What lengths humans go to to satisfy their own wants never taking into account others needs.  Here are some examples:  Road rage, our overloaded court system, debt to the max.  What do these examples have to do with addiction? Perhaps these people were on large doses of caffeine or some other substance that sent their impatience level zooming upward, but addiction is not limited to substances. It appears in all unhealthy behaviors that damage the relationship to self and others, and we see evidence of it everywhere we go. However, we're all part of the problem at one time or another. "I have found the enemy, and the enemy is us,". Who among us doesn't offend people by our behavior? Other drivers? Other shoppers? Our  neighbors? But some addicts are sicker than others, and certainly they are more offensive. They leave a trail of frustration behind them as they pursue their addictions to such cravings as the thrill of speed, the intoxication of power, the anesthetic of noise, and the self-indulgent pursuit of pleasure and satisfaction. So what's going on? Is this an epidemic of sorts, this seeming lack of concern for others? The self-centered lifestyle is poisonous to our society and will destroy an addict. "Selfishness, self-centeredness; that, we think, is the root of our troubles." Bill Wilson's idea applies to all aspects of life, and needs our ongoing thought and our attention.  Although we may not be able to change society as a whole, we most certainly begin with ourselves. NOTHING CHANGES IF  NOTHING CHANGES